T.O.M.A.
T.O.M.A. – Too Old, My Ass is for the middle-aged crowd done doom scrolling and ready to live wide-open. With real stories, hard truths, and a no-BS approach to self-improvement, host Jason Bohler delivers a weekly dose of practical rebellion against the midlife rut—helping you get unstuck in body, mind, and spirit.
T.O.M.A.
EPISODE 7: The Brotherhood Problem
You can have a full house, a full schedule, and still feel empty.
That’s the quiet truth for too many men today — disconnected, isolated, and convinced that no one truly gets them.
In this episode, Jason tackles what he calls “The Brotherhood Problem” — the slow erosion of male friendship that leaves men surviving instead of thriving. He dives into why so many of us trade real brotherhood for surface-level “check-ins” and why we struggle to admit we’re lonely even when the signs are all over our lives.
You’ll learn:
- Why connection is a form of strength, not weakness.
- How isolation silently sabotages your health, marriage, and mindset.
- The science behind why men need community for resilience.
- How to build your own tribe without awkward drum circles or matching bracelets.
It’s not about being needy — it’s about being alive.
The right men around you can reignite your fire, sharpen your edge, and keep you accountable when life tries to dull your blade.
You were never meant to do this alone.
This is your wake-up call to rebuild your brotherhood.